Culinary Angels

08042024-06

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I have a lot to catch you up on today, more than I thought I did or expected actually.

Let's start with yesterday.

It was our first day with Beth confirmed to have been on her way back home—I'll get to that—and, although we had at first anticipated taking Beth to see it, Shobhit and I just went to see the Blue Angels airshow ourselves.

I had actually forgotten that I had not gone since 2022, because last year I was at my trip to Minnesota for the Co+nvergence conference in Saint Paul, and then Shobhit met up with me that weekend—which would have been the very weekend the Blue Angels airshow would have happened. The same issue would have happened this year as well, as I totally intended to return to Co+nvergence—only to learn that they put it on hold this year, in favor of another conference focused on Fresh and Perishable categories (not my department!), but the hope and expectation is that the conference will return next year, at which time I will likely have to miss the Seafair airshows again. Which is fine; this is one even that's better appreciated when not seen every single year—in fact, among the nine times I've gone to see the Blue Angels over the past 20 years, the only times I have gone two years in a row were 2005-06, and 2009-10.

Anyway. Intent to get a bunch of extra steps in, Shobhit suggested we walk down to the I-90 bridge, so that's what we did. That's a slightly more than three-mile walk there, and we got there early enough that Shobhit then suggested we walk across the 2-mile bridge (okay, I just double checked this: the actual distance walking on the bridge is more like 1.6 miles) across Lake Washington to Mercer Island and back. This actually both helped us kill time, and we were able to see other, more minor flights of aircraft before the Blue Angels started their show about 10 minutes behind schedule at 3:45 or so, all while we were moving.

Neither of us had ever walked the entire span of that bridge—the second-longest floating bridge in the world, behind the SR 520 Bridge that also crosses Lake Washington (to the north), all three of the top 3 being in Western Washington—and I can't say I'm especially eager to do it again. But, I'm glad to be able to say I have done it.

Once the Blue Angels were actually flying, it was a very fun show to watch, as it always is. I did find myself incredibly frustrated by my phone's camera, which refused to focus when I had it on really high zoom function. In the past, I got shots with my phone placed looking through our binoculars, which we somehow managed to damage while in Toronto back in June. (They still work, but a rubber cover thing on one of the eye holes is gone, making it difficult to adjust looking through.) In spite of this, I managed to get a photo album with 53 shots, several of them spectacular, so in the end I guess I won't complain too much about it. The 2022 album had all of 40 shots, and this year's was the largest photo album I've gotten out of the Blue Angels Seafair Airshow since the very first one I did, with 60 shots, in 2005.

Shobhit and I watched most of the show from maybe a little bit west of the center of the bridge, but started working our way back about 15 minutes before the show ended. They fly for nearly an hour.

By this time, all the walking in my sandals was resulting in chaffing on my feet, so I was absolutely not up for walking the three miles back home again from the west end of the bridge. We walked over to MLK Way and, with 15 minutes or so to spare, we walked up the road to Jackson, where we then waited just a few minutes for the #8 bus, which we rode up to the stop on 15th and John, then walked the four blocks (0.4 miles) home from there. By the time we got home, we had walked a total of about 8 and a half miles yesterday. I haven't had daily steps like that since we were in Toronto (one of those days, I walked a total of 12 miles).

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08042024-30

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So, moving back a day: we had Alexia over for dinner Saturday evening. This was something we had planned on July 16, once we knew Shobhit would have that day off. This was well before we knew for sure Beth was even coming to stay with us, let alone that she'd be with us until the end of the day that very Saturday.

When Beth had been unable to board the flight when we dropped her off at the airport Tuesday night last week, Shobhit and I had the condo to ourselves that night, but then Beth was on the train back up to us on Wednesday morning—Shobhit picked her up at Capitol Hill Light Rail Station. At that point, she said the next flight out was early Sunday morning, so the expectation was that she would go back to the airport later Saturday night, just as she had Tuesday night. Thus, her stay was extended by three nights—from what was originally going to be seven. (This total span made for 11 nights, remembering that she stayed overnight at the airport last Tuesday night.)

In any case, this brings me back to Friday evening, when I made no plans other than to stay home and help however needed with the extensive food preparation Shobhit already had underway. I chopped a few vegetables, Beth offered her help here and there as well. As often happens, so much has happened already since Friday now that I no longer have a vivid memory of that particular evening. I do know that all three of us were home, and there was a certain amount of dinner prep that occurred. Thus, Shobhit and Beth both get a Social Review point for that night!

I did text Alexia a photo of two of the dishes getting cooked on the stove Friday night, successfully getting her excited for dinner on Saturday.

Shobhit had worked a shift 8:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Friday, and then the very same shift again on Saturday. I did some housework during that time Saturday morning, and Beth went on a solo outing, apparently down to Pike Place Market. She was in the guest room showering and primping when I vacuumed the entire condo, and I managed to start and finish that entire task while she was in there. She left shortly after.

When she got back, she evidently took a nap. She returned shortly before Shobhit got home from work. He asked me to ask her something, I forget what, except that it necessitated knocking on the guest room door. She called me in, and she was under the blanket on the bed, but told me she had just woken up. She said she actually screamed when a jet flew so low over us that it was super loud and literally rattled all the buildings, and at least three nearby car alarms went off. (The Blue Angels do their air show three times the first weekend of August every year, on Friday, Saturday and Sunday—Shobhit and I just went down to watch on Sunday.) I saw later that Shanti and Guru's memorial paw prints had fallen off their little boxes of ashes on the top shelf of my desk, and at first I could not figure out why that would have happened. Then I realized it had been the vibrations of the passing jet. We might as well have had a minor earthquake.

There was a day or two there where Beth was talking about actually buying a commercial airline ticket back to Korea, instead of attempting the military flight out on Sunday morning. This would have extended her stay yet another two days, maybe two and a half, depending on the departure time—which she kept telling us she didn't know. That seemed weird to me, but she said she was waiting to hear from her husband, James, as to whether he'd bought the ticket. Shobhit and I both asked her multiple times what the status of this was, always with no concrete answers. I think she may have ultimately gotten a hint, though, because in the end she decided to attempt the military flight regardless—ultimately, thankfully, with success.

I only bring that up because, when we thought Beth might be with us until tomorrow, we talked about taking her yesterday to see the Blue Angels. Prior to that, the idea had been broached that she and I just go ourselves to see the show Saturday while Shobhit finished preparing for dinner. When that remained a possibility, this had an effect on whether we should tell Alexia to come for dinner at 6:00 or at 5:00. Finally, though, we scrapped the idea of going to the airshow Saturday—which was just as well because Shobhit needed plenty of help, particularly with frying the parathas. He clearly felt that I did a better job of following his expectations of how long to fry them, how much ghee to spread on them, etc.

Alexia is an early riser who goes to bed early, so it was fairly predictable that she'd be happy to come closer to 5:00 than to 6:00, so that's what we finally told her to do. And thus, we had a four-person dinner party on Saturday night. Counting when Shobhit also made a large dinner of Indian dishes Thursday the week before last, basically in honor of Beth as our guest, this made for the third hosted dinner we've done this calendar year. Shobhit is still hoping to get his old accent teacher, Ellen, over for a dinner before the end of the month. We'll see about that, though; plans for the rest of this month are quickly filling out, and Ellen apparently just returned from a trip to a wedding with covid. The soonest we could have her over is in three weeks, though, so she should be well over it by then.

Alexia really wanted to bring something, even though there was no need given how much food Shobhit would be cooking. Granted, even Beth clearly wanted to contribute, so she went to Trader Joe's (a beloved grocery store they do not have in Korea, and which she has apparently dearly missed these past couple of years) to get the ingredients, and then baked a cake tin of brownies. Shobhit and I finished that off last night. Anyway, I'm digressing here! Alexia brought us chopped melon, so she wouldn't have come empty handed. She did bring to-go containers, though, as we always suggest to our dinner guests. She didn't take quite as much as Shobhit suggested, because she's on a trip to Columbus, Ohio this week and thus only had another day to eat leftovers before she would be headed out of town for the week.

I will say there was a bit of a change in vibe, in group dynamic, having both Alexia and Beth with us—they are such very different people. Don't get me wrong, there was no tension or anything between them. It just kind of felt like they had very little in common. Although I will say, Shobhit sort of "warned" Beth that Alexia is convervative, even though she isn't really; she's moderate conservative at worst, and quite liberal in a lot of areas—especially when it comes to reproductive rights or environmental concerns, which she very much revealed in natural conversaton on Saturday. (This is why I wish Shobhit would quite jumping to wild conclusions about people.) Now, had something like police department issues come up, Alexia likely would have looked a lot more conservative, especially talking to a Black woman, but thankfully that never came up.

It was all a very pleasant evening, with super delicious food, which everyone knew to expect since Shobhit cooked it. Alexia hung out for a few hours, and Beth then finished packing, while Shobhit and I caught a couple of reruns of As Time Goes By. We then once again offered to drive Beth to the airport, which we finally did mostly when I felt it would be too late for me to go if we waited any longer. I was starting to get tired.

Shobhit and I both had a feeling she would make it on the plane this time, though we had no way of knowing for sure. Shobhit texted her yesterday morning to ask what the status was, and this time she said she was making it and was getting her ticket at that very moment. As of today, she is back in Korea with her husband and dog.

After she spent several days looking at apartments, but also not (yet?) hearing back from the people she said offered her a job at the interview she went to last Monday, it feels wildly up in the air if and when she will return to Seattle, presumably to live for at least a year. It actually would be fun to have her around, especially if she finds a place of her own, when we can show someone new a lot of the many beautiful places to see in Western Washington and the Puget Sound region. Historically, though, Beth's stated plans are tenuous at best. That said, her visiting this time at all was the first time that actually panned out, after at least two other times in the past asking if she could stay with us and then the intended trip never happening. So, who knows? The direction Beth's life goes in the near future will have to be left up to suspense for now.

In any case, my "Beth Visit 2024" photo album contains 45 shots, from an 11-day visit, although that does not include last Monday's outing to West Seattle, with Danielle and Riley, which itself was another 43 shots. So, all together, I have 88 shots related to Beth's visit.

If she does actually move to Seattle, though, maybe next year she can finally get to see the Blue Angels show (even though I likely won't). I bet she'd really enjoy it.

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08042024-29

[posted 12:27 pm]

High Flying Weekend

08072022-20

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I think I'm going to start with yesterday and work my way backwards.

I was supposed to go to Golden Gardens Park with Tracy last night, as part of her celebrating her birthday on Wednesday. But, I should have known better to try and plan something with her two days in a row; she was meant to come pick me up at 5:00 p.m. and I got this text at 3:46: Hey, I need to cancel our plans for tonight. I've out extroverted myself and need some quiet time. Sorry for the last minute change!

I just responded with, Okay. I hardly had any good reason to be super annoyed by this; I had just hung out with her the very previous day, after all, and we'd been together a good five or six hours. I can't pretend to be thrilled by it either though, mostly because, unlike the millions of people out there who love it when their social plans get canceled, I don't like having plans canceled with no backup in place. On the upside, this still worked out well for me last night, as it left my evening open to get all of my Blue Angels photos uploaded and captioned, and Shobhit and I were able to watch a bunch of television: episodes 6 and 7 of The Sandman on Netflix; last night's episode of Westworld (quite a tonal shift, I must say); and last night's episode of Last Week Tonight with John Oliver.

Furthermore, I know Tracy prioritized mental health, which I do fully support, and good for her for sticking to whatever boundaries she needs even if it's unfortunately at the last minute. I don't put her in the same category as other friends who I felt were simply flaky. I do think, however, that I should resist trying to make plans with her twice in the same weekend, or particularly two days in a row. That really increases the chance she will wind up canceling, and I'm still going to do what I can to prevent that from happening.

So, the Big Social Outing yesterday was watching the Blue Angels do their Seafair air show. This was the first time they did it at all—like basically every other major community event—since 2019, and that year I went with Gina and Beth while Shobhit worked. They did the Park & Ride thing at Angle Lake and then took Light Rail northbound, and I took it southbound, to meet them at Mount Baker Station, and we walked the mile or so to watch from the beach at Mount Baker Park. The whole plan worked out very well.

Shobhit, for his part, had not seen the Blue Angels show in five years, because we didn't go in 2018, but he and I did in 2017. As it happened, 2019 was the first year they no longer closed down the I-90 floating bridge for the show, which meant that 2017 was the last year we could go out a little ways into the middle of the bridge. (I had actually used that as a selling point to get Gina and Beth to come in 2019, but the option we did have still worked out fine.) It was really cool, 2017 being the second of only two years I managed to get out onto the middle of the bride for the show. Both that year and in 2019, we got there by 1:00, about two hours early, to get a good spot and beat the worst of the crowds.

Well, Shobhit and I took a different approach yesterday, waiting instead to get there just over an hour early. We left home around 1:30, and parked on 31st Avenue South at about 1:50. There's a small bit of park area there, just above the tunnel that makes the west end of the I-90 bridge, called East Portal Viewpoint, about three blocks down a steep hill from where we parked (one block actually has a staircase to get up and down).

What we discovered, though, was that with the bridge open for traffic during the airshow, that also left the cycling/footpath along the north side of the bridge open—this was always closed to the public when they closed the bridge down to vehicle traffic. I won't be surprised if some year soon authorities stop allowing this, as it did leave a path about half as narrow for actual cyclists to get back and forth between the people on the bridge, but for now, Shobhit and I actually walked down there a little ways, basically as far as what put us directly above the western shore of Lake Washington. It was a great viewing spot, and since we did bring a small blanket tote with us from the trunk of the car, we did set it on the ground, folded into about a quarter of its full width, so we could sit on that and lean against the concrete barrier as a wall.

The Blue Angels airshow is pretty much the same every year, but especially since I don't go every single year (like the Washington State Fair, every few years or so seems to work best, so I don't tire of its sameness), I still always enjoy it. And I try to find new ways to get interesting photos. The shot at the top of this post is easily my favorite of the forty that I saved from yesterday—the most I have taken any year since the first year I ever went, 2005, when I got sixty shots.

This was actually the seventh time I've gone, since that first time in 2005. It was the eighth photo album I uploaded to Flickr, though, because in 2006 I saved the photos Stephanie S had shared, taken from the outdoor deck at the home of a friend.

Once we got home and I could see the photos enlarged on my desktop computer screen, I was quite pleased with the results—taking photos through my binoculars is often a real challenge, especially when trying to capture moving objects. But, once I had cropped these photos to my satisfaction, much like in 2019, they turned out far better than any of the shots I could get from just a camera itself in previous years. The only exception would be the couple of video clips I took, which I could not easily take through binoculars, so those are taken just from the phone, albeit using what zoom was available. They still turned out pretty cool, I thought.

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08072022-34

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Okay! Let's shift back one day, to Saturday. Shobhit worked his usual noon-2:00 shift, and Tracy came over to the Braeburn Condos theater to watch The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers. We had watched The Fellowship of the Ring with me in February, so it took six months for us finally to get around to the second installment of the trilogy. We both feel relatively confident we can get to the third (and best) in less time, at least by the end of the year.

She had never seen of the Special Edition versions, which average around four hours, before. To my amazement, she can always recognize the scenes she knows she's never seen before. I love these movies so much that whenever I watch them I insist on watching the Special Editions, their length notwithstanding.

Tracy wanted to order pizza for lunch, and I suggested Palermo because they are tasty and also close by. We shared a medium pizza, which they said would take an hour to arrive, but we couldn't have been more than half an hour into the movie when it did arrive. The guy forgot her soda though so had to go back and get it, which took a while; we finished eating, and then he arrived again, offering two sodas instead of the one she ordered, as a sort of apology.

We must have broken for at least an hour to eat our lunch out in the Community Kitchen (which is still required to be booked in tandem with a theater booking, which works fine for me as booking them separately was always awkward, resulting in walking through someone else's event in the kitchen just to get to the bathroom). We finally got back into the theater, where I also popped some popcorn, which I ate quite a lot of. Just for shits and giggles, I took a brief video of the popcorn popping. Just for anyone looking for a sense of The Braeburn!

I really enjoyed watching the movie, as I always do, and so far as I could tell Tracy did too. Soon after I went back upstairs to the condo, and I told Shobhit I was interested in this new series that had been released on Netflix on Friday called The Sandman. He seemed reticent at first, but as often happens after he finally gives something I suggest a chance, he got super into it: we binged fully half the season—five episodes—on Saturday night. Shobhit wanted to keep going all night but I was too tired and needed to go to bed shortly after 11 p.m.

There's a lot to pique my interest in that show anyway, even though I have never read anything by Neil Gaiman, the author on whose eighties comic book series the show is based. But, there was a movie based on a novel of his back in 2007, starring Claire Danes and co-starring Robrt DeNiro as a gay pirate, which I liked and which I even re-watched with Ivan while he still lived with us last year. I would expect a movie or show based on other works of his to suit my interests. Furthermore, there's a raven character in The Sandman on this show voiced by Patton Oswalt—a favorite comedian of mine—whose name is MATTHEW. Ha!

By complete coincidence, Gabriel actually texted me a video clip of his TV last night, featuring Matthew the raven, and including the closed captioning reading thus: [Matthew the raven] Fuck it! Let's go to Hell. I replied that we were seven episodes in and really enjoying it, and he expressed surprise, both that I was into the show, and that even he was giving it a shot (which I think is objectively more surprising, actually).

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Okay so now let's shift back to Friday. I never posted a standard Daily Lunch Update that day, because I decided the "Twenty Years of What PCC Means to Me" photo retrospective would suffice for the day. I actually have posted another post this past weekend, however: the next day, I did post about the 20th Anniversary Party Eric threw for me in the midafternoon on Friday. So, both of those posts had to do with my reaching twenty years at PCC, and you can follow those links to read more if you haven't already. (I actually wrote up and posted that post on Saturday after the movie with Tracy, and before getting to the show watching with Shobhit.)

On Friday, though, by the time Shobhit and I got all the sodas and leftovers down to the car, I had about half an hour left of my work day. I left at 4:30, and instead of heading south and east as usual to go home, I walked due north, to meet Laney for our first August Happy Hour at a park, a first-time at Centennial Park. This proved slightly confusing at first, because it used to be called Elliott Bay Park, and both the Maps app and Google Maps still uses both labels, making it look like Elliott Bay Park is north of Centennial Park. But, the whole strip of parkland even down through Myrtle Edwards Park—which is directly across the railroad tracks from the PCC office building—used to be called Elliott Bay Park, the Myrtle Edwards stretch being renamed thus in 1976, the year I was born.

Myrtle Edwards Park is maintained by Seattle Parks & Recreation, though, and this was how I learned that some Seattle city parks are maintained by a different agency: Centennial Park, connected to and directly north of Myrtle Edwards is maintained by the Port of Seattle, and that stretch, apparently still called Elliott Bay Park at the time, was renamed Centennial Park in 2011.

The annoying thing is that, right now, I cannot find a complete park map, by either Seattle Parks & Recreation or the Port of Seattle, which makes it clear where Myrtle Edwards ends and Centennial Park begins. I suppose I could go by where signs are posted, but I wasn't thinking to when walking through the park—which, functionally, is all just one continuous park—and just trying to figure out where "Elliott Bay Park" was and thus where Laney was expected to be. I still couldn't even tell you where Centennial Park ends to the north; only that the map shows green parkland as far north as Pier 90, about half a mile north of where I found Laney.

In fact, when I found her, I was just looking at my phone and noticing I had walked a bit further north than my Maps app was telling me to go for "Elliott Bay Park," and a second later she texted me her location. I thought it meant I had overshot my mark by more than I did, and I texted her as I headed back—only to find her in her collapsible chair in the grassy area next to some trees moments later.

It was rather breezy there, so we tired to move to the other side of another couple of trees to cut it down, which didn't really work. But, once I got the requisite photo and we settled into our chairs, we didn't even think about the wind again, which we realized a couple hours later, as we were packing up to leave, had actually completely died down anyway.

I had made myself a margarita in a thermos in the morning before work, so I could just take it directly after work, and I also took leftover samosas and pakoras (also what I brought for lunch today) to have as a picnic dinner there. Laney might have hung out longer than just two hours this time, but she was dog sitting and getting worried about the animal, so we packed up and walked a fairly surprising distance to a parking garage that apparently was built by Expedia, which has a beautiful new headquarters building right there, and the garage has free four-hour parking for park patrons. How awesome is that? I'd definitely go back. The view of Elliott Bay, as always, is stellar.

Anyway, Laney then drove me home, after a wonderful outdoor happy hour as usual.

08052022-13

[posted 12:25 pm]