WildLanterns and Holiday in the Park 2024

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I have so much more to tell you about, and yet I keep doing other things, like work! and, okay, a bit of dicking around. I should probably stop dicking around!

Alexia picked me up after work yesterday and drove us up to Woodland Park Zoo for this year's really fantastic "WildLanterns"—which she goes to more years than not, but which I had only gone to once before, also with Alexia, in 2021. It's kind of odd how I felt I was barely affording it with my budget back then, and the ticket prices remain comparable but I think it makes a huge difference that now I have a specific budget line item for all my paychecks throughout the year, to save for "Christmas events." It's just a matter of which ones I choose. I smartly did this after taking the rather expensive Christmas cruise last year on Argosy Cruises. Nothing I did this year was that expensive, which allowed me to do one or two more things.

I'm really glad we went. I loved it in 2021, but I honestly thought this year it was distinctly better. I took even more but of the photos I actually kept, I have 79 shots from that event this year alone. (In 2021 I had 69.)

The timed entry tickets were for 5:30. Alexia had managed to get to my office through traffic at 4:45. So, I worked an extra ten minutes. Still, I was smart to take the bus down to the Central Library and back during my lunch break to pick up a couple of library books rather than try to do it after work, which would have necessitated leaving early yet again. Yesterday was the one day this entire week I have not left work early. I will be again today.

We actually arrived at Woodland Park Zoo at 5:15. The last photo I took there was at 6:49, so we would have left around 7:00. Longer than I might have assumed we'd be there. But it was just so, so cool. I can't recommend it enough.

And particularly! Last night was very deliberately chosen, as it's one of two night's they are doing this season called "Night Owls," where all admission is 21 and over—no children, anywhere! I proposed this date to Alexia even though she doesn't drink, using the argument that it would be cool to go with no kids there. Also, at least at the time we went, it certainly cut down on the crowd numbers. I think Shobhit would have loved this as well, but alas, he had to work last night.

There were at least three or four different bars selling cocktails and beer around the zoo grounds. At the first one, I got the one hot cocktail they had available for me: hot cocoa with Bailey's in it. It was delicious. There was a lot of other cocktail options but I didn't want to be walking around in the late fall with a cold drink. I was slightly tempted to get another after about an hour but I decided there was no good reason to get a second hot cocoa.

I had a great time. A couple of things added to our time there: we went in to see about half of an interactive animal presentation, where at first they had a snake out, and then Molly the porcupine. And when we got to it, we decided to pay the $3 each (I paid, since Alexia had paid for parking) to ride the zoo's "Historic Carousel" they've had there since 2006.

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Alexia was driving me home afterward, and she opted not to take the freeway since Maps said the alternate route had a "similar ETA." I realized, just as we were driving south on 15th past Volunteer Park, that this year's "Holiday in the Park" event was still happening.

Alexia had caught a 9 a.m. flight home from Ohio from a work trip in the morning. That would have been 6 a.m. Pacific Time, and she was very tired, and so she wasn't interested on going to this second event in one night. She happily dropped me off at Volunteer Park though, so I went to roam around the event for most of its final half hour or so. The booth that usually hands out free hot chocolate (I would have taken a second one for free!) and cookies was already breaking down. Oh well.

This made for my 10th time going to these events, although it was my first I wound up going to by myself since 2019. (I returned two weeks later just to see the Holiday Train display with Laney; I suppose that's still in the cards this year.)

My photos are very similar every year because every year the event is basically the same: hot chocolate and cookies; live performances in front of the Seattle Asian Art Museum; walking through the holiday display, with a model train around Christmas Trees, at the Volunteer Park Conservatory. I don't care, though; I can't say I particularly ever tire of it. I really thought I might have to skip it this year because of the conflict with WildLanterns, but I made it anyway. I'd have preferred to go with someone but that's okay.

Shobhit was still at work and I walked home, made some leftover shahi paneer for dinner, and commenced with processing the day's photos. I took either just under or just over 100 photos each day both Wednesday and yesterday. I don't have another photogenic holiday event again until . . . tomorrow!

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I just finished with my usually-biweekly Zoom lunch with Karen—but, the last time we had one scheduled, she had a conflict she could not change and so it got canceled. I hadn't talked to her in four weeks, and we had so much to catch up on.

And still we got sidetracked for several minutes, because she asked which earrings I was wearing today (cups of eggnog), which got us on a discussion of all the earrings I now have, and how I theme them generally by month. I sent her the link to my earrings photo album and she went through and was delighted by many of them.

She also talked a fair amount about her house construction in Tulalip. It has gone through many delays, and currently is scheduled to be finished in January. That's next month though, so she's almost there! I can't wait to finally visit and go see it.

I had started the conversation by saying I had so much to tell her about, which she brought up again at the half-hour mark. I had way more I could have talked to her about, but as soon as I told her Shobhit and I booked our anniversary trip next year to D.C. for World Pride in June, she was thrilled: she loves that city, and having been on the federal Accessibility Board and also gone to many other conferences held there, she's very familiar with it. I was really glad to talk to someone who was fully on board with my expectation to have a good time in spite of President Fuckwit being back in office, rather than these ridiculous notions of it being really dangerous (not in the least bit likely) or deeply depressing, or both. As I have said multiple times already, I won't let any bastards rob me of experiencing queer joy.

I do plan to contact World Pride organizers about trans inclusion, though. That is especially critical now, and so far I see nothing specific to trans people on the World Pride D.C. website.

Anyway, Karen has lots of recommendations for us. This took up the whole second half hour of the lunch hour. Now I'm back and I need to spend the afternoon trying to get some actual work done.

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Holiday in the Park 2023

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Had circumstances this year been different, I could potentially have gone to the annual "Holiday in the Park" at Volunteer Park with a record three people: I could potentially have gone with Alexia (with whom I went both last year and the year before), Laney (with whom I went in 2016 and in 2019), and Shobhit (with whom I've now gone four times: 2017, 2018, 2022 and 2023).

The massice chemical supply company Alexia works for is undergoing a lot of change these days, and she had a slightly last-minute trip she had to take to Phoenix this week. So: not available. I was going to go to Holiday in the Park with both Shobhit and Laney last night, but the pinched nerve in her back that resulted in her having to cancel joining for The Great Figgy Pudding Caroling Competition last Friday is still affecting her, and she had to pull out last night as well. Right now I'm just hoping she'll still be able to make it to our scheduled Happy Hour at The Cheesecake Factory and then Seattle Holiday Lights and Delights tomorrow, and then our scheduled Double Feature at the Braeburn Condos theater on Sunday. She seemed relatively confident she'll be up for keeping the weekend plans, but she's had so many ailments lately it's really hard to know what to expect.

Shobhit just happened to have yesterday off of work. Laney confirmed she would not be coming only a few hours before the event, but when I got home and told Shobhit, I said, "I still want to go, though." I'm kind of eager to keep going to this event every year that I can—I've only missed it three years since it began in 2012, and two of those years was because they canceled it (in 2014, due to a forecast windstorm that never actually materialized, and then of course in 2020 due to the pandemic). The only year that it actually occurred that I didn't make it was 2015, probably because I had too much to do the night before I left for that year's Christmastime visit to see Mom in Idaho the next day.

I think it had been Shobhit suggestion last year, when he and Alexia and I all went together, for him and me to bring our own homemade hot chocolate in insulated tumblers, because so often the free hot chocolate they offer at the event is lukewarm at best. This time it was my suggestion, and I added a shot of whiskey to Shobhit's and two shots of whiskey to mine. And then? The hot chocolate they offered was plenty hot! They offered them in tiny little cups, but there were two hot chocolate booth stations, one by the Seattle Asian Art Musuem and one by the Volunteer Park Conservatory. We didn't drink all of the hot chocolate we got by the museum because it tasted a little burnt. The Conservatory hot chocolate was better, and I just added it to my tumbler of hot chocolate, warming it up a bit more and filling it back up.

They also had cookies at these two refreshment stations. The cookies they have on offer at this event has kind of evolved over the years, and the best was in the early years, when they had loose, frosted sugar cookies set out on paper plates. The cookie offerings changed drastically in 2021, which was post-vaccines but covid considerations remained in full effect, and they offered pre-packaged, Grandma's Cookies (bleh). Last year they switched to baked cookies slipped into transparent plastic sleeves, along with Ghiradelli chocolates, and it was the same this year—minus the chocolates. Most of it was cookies this year, chocolate chip or (Shobhit's favorite) oatmeal raisin.

There was a couple of plastic sleeves of peppermint bark, however. When Shobhit and I went to get in line for the holiday train set in the Conservatory, a lady at the refreshments booth there announced, "There's two peppermint barks left!" That caught my attention and I grabbed one. Without missing a beat the lady quickly re-announced, "There's one peppermint bark left!"

At Shobhit's suggestion, we went over to the Conservatory first, because the line was so long at the booth in front of the Seattle Asian Art Museum. The line wasn't very long to get in, but once in side, holy shit was it crowded. It takes a long time to move through the entire Conservatory just by virtue of how many people go in there during this event. The holiday train and Christmas Trees display is always just in one specific section of the Conservatory and the rest is still open to peruse all the plant specimens, which of course we did, and I got a few pretty cool shots of plants and flowers, as I always tend to.

I usually get a selfie with whoever I go to this event with in front of the Christmas Trees they surround the waist-level, elevated trai track with. I've already done this with Shobhit in the past though, and didn't want to repeat what I've already done. Instead we got this year's selfie in front of the museum, which was actually Shobhit's suggestion. He then even suggested two more spots to get selfies, with the Space Needle and/or the Seattle skyline in the background.

We spent nearly another half hour at the event after that, because right when we got out of the Conservatory, the fun acapelle group The Beaconettes—who had also been at Figgy Pudding last Friday—were arriving. They actually sounded a lot better last night than they did at Figgy Pudding, and that may have had more to do with the more intimate setting at this event than anything else.

They sang several, very crowd-pleasing songs. And then once they launched into one we had already heard them sing last Friday, Shobhit and I finally left to walk back home.

In the end I got a 32-shot photo album out of this year's event—the very same number I had in last year's album. This is now the 9th one of these I've gone to, spread over 12 years.

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I've gotten very little work done so far today, because I came in late due to my doctor's appointment for an annual physical. This time around I spoke mostly to a medical student instead of Dr. Means, who came in only for about five minutes. It seemed a little ironic to me that of all the medical staff I came across this morning at Virginia Mason's Buck Pavilion, Dr. Means was the only one not wearing a mask. He came into the room, saw that I was wearing one, and asked if I preferred he wear one. I told him I didn't care, he could do whatever he wanted, which was true. That doesn't change how odd I find it that only the doctor was not wearing one. But, also, he's young and handsome and has a nice face, so who's complaining?

I've scheduled my first colonoscopy, for January 15. How exciting is that? (Not exciting at all.)

I was slightly struck by the sign on the window that read, Windows are tinted for your privacy. It made me think of the dentist office, in the half-basement level of a building, I walked past on my way to Virginia Mason this morning, on Pine Street just a few blocks from home: I was able to look into a window, down into a room where a young lady was sitting in a dental chair, some kind of red tab sticking out of her closed mouth. She caught my eye as I walked by. I was surprised they didn't at least draw the blinds for patients.

Anyway, the appointment was at 9:00. I went down to the 6th floor for my blood work and urine sample at around 9:30. It was very close to 10:00 when I managed to catch a northbound RapidRide D bus on 3rd Avenue. I had just a few minutes before my 1:1 weekly meeting with Gabby, over Teams because she doesn't come into the office on Fridays. During our meeting a person from some religious group slipped a flyer through the crack of her front door.

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I just had my biweekly Zoom lunch with Karen. Nothing momentous that we discussed, with the possible exception of when she excitedly told me, "The house is getting framed!" A neighbor near the property up in Tulalip took a photo and set it to her, and she held up her phone for me to see. It was actually very exciting, and makes her more hopeful that the house will be done in time for Thanksgiving next year. The wooden walls of most sides of the house had been erected in the photo, and I guess it was taken on Tuesday this week. The neighbor sent it to her with the message, "A lot of activity the past two days," or something to that effect.

I nearly forgot about this lunch with Karen, until she texted me a confirmation about 15 minutes before noon. I usually take a half hour break for lunch but when I do a video chat lunch with Karen we take an hour. So that was yet another thing to cut into time I could have gotten work done today, in addition to the doctor's appointment and then the meeting with Gabby. Now I should be able to focus and get some real work done through the afternoon.

Otherwise, though, I'm not really that worried about it.

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